Healing Relationships. Honoring Identity. Creating Peace.
Hi, I’m Andrea (Andy) Hawkes, MFT — a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist dedicated to helping individuals, couples, throuples, and families heal, reconnect, and grow.
As a parent of two trans kids, I know firsthand the importance of creating spaces where people feel truly seen and safe. My work is rooted in empathy, lived experience, and the belief that every person deserves a space to explore who they are — without judgment.
I’m especially passionate about supporting:
Queer and gender-diverse clients
Polyamorous, ENM, and alternative relationship systems
Folks navigating faith transitions, including post-Mormon journeys
Couples and families working to reconnect after conflict or disconnection
Individuals healing from trauma, identity exploration, and life transitions
About Me
I believe healing happens when we slow down, listen deeply, and create room for both comfort and discomfort. My style is warm, curious, and collaborative — I walk alongside you rather than telling you who to be.
I draw from a variety of therapeutic models, including:
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Gottman Method
Somatic practices
Attachment-based and systemic approaches
This means I customize our work to fit your unique story, your relationships, and your goals.
My Approach
You are not broken.
You are not “too much.”
You are worthy of healing, and of creating the life and relationships you long for.
Therapy with me isn’t about “fixing” you — it’s about rediscovering your resilience, reclaiming your choices, and learning to live with more peace, clarity, and connection.
My Philosophy
Services
Individual Therapy
A safe and affirming space to explore your identity, process trauma, and reconnect with yourself.
Couples Therapy
Helping couples deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and navigate conflict with compassion.
Alternative Relationship Counseling
Support for poly systems, throuples, and non-monogamous relationships navigating complexity with honesty and care.
Family Therapy
For families seeking to repair disconnection, strengthen bonds, and honor each member’s unique voice.
If you’re curious about working together, I invite you to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. This is a chance to ask questions, share your hopes, and see if we feel like a good fit.
📞 (434) 201-7963
📧 andy@andreahawksmft.com
You don’t have to do this alone. I’d be honored to walk with you on your healing journey.
Let’s begin the journey together.
I see clients both in person at my Charlottesville office and online across Virginia.
Individuals — $175/session
Couples — $200/session
Sliding scale options available
Superbills provided for insurance reimbursement
Consultation
Let’s Connect